… and it’s always me… I just can’t do it… never could… never will…

After we stop lashing out on others for the responsibility, we project the failure and mistake on ourselves – and make ourselves again the victim of unchangeable conditions of the outside world. 

Opposite to the steps before (denial, lay blame and justify) in shame we turn our focus no longer to the outside world, and rather to the inside. No more finger pointing.

Unfortunate is, if we see the issue as a static situation that cannot be changed. And we might tend to give up…

Let’s see what else is there___ yes, someone could just QUIT

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